Today was a day like any other day... except that it past by faster... Met Guan You after work. Before having dinner we went round to look for my mom's wool string. Haha. Only like found it after quite awhile cos the direction given wasn't really clear. Went to Macs for dinner then later headed home. Yup, tht's basically today's event lor.
Okay, here comes my analogy/lesson/wateva you call it for the day...
I wrote this analogy before:
A broken friendship is like a fallen leaf. Once, it falls, it can never go back to where it came from.
I came up with this when i was facing friendship problems during lower sec. When i was in sec 4, i wrote this in my English journal cos it was friendship day and we needed to write a journal on friendship. After my journal entry, i added tht short analogy at the bottom. The next time i got back my journal, there was a reply to it. This was what my teacher wrote ' the fallen leaf can be framed' or something like tht. It then hit me cos what she said was both comforting and true. Although a friendhip can be broken, there are many beautiful memories to it and it can always serve as a beautiful picture in one's life. Well, actually there are many ways to how you see what tht line means. But for me, its like don't think tht nothing is impossible. There's always a way out to all things. Just like the leaf tht has fallen, although it can never go back to its branch again, but then, there are still other things you can do to the fallen leaf, its just depends on whether you want to do it or not.
Okay, i'm actually directing this post to some ppl out there.
Things might not actually be what it is from the way you look at it. It is only good tht you sit down and trash things out with each other. Through this setbacks and challenges in a friendship, then can you only have a stronger friendship. Do something bout it while you still can, do not wait until its too late then you mend it. Friends are hard to come by which means that Close friends are like the needle in the haystack. Hard to find. So, don't because of some silly tiffs, actions, behaviour and attitude, allow a precious friendship to fall just like dat. It won't be worth, seriously. Look, no one is perfect. The only perfect one is GOD. People make mistakes without realising it. So rather then judging and complain, won't it be best to just sit down and talk things out. Its hard i know, but i beats not doing anything and just letting it rot there. Misunderstanding is like a rolling snowball. It just keeps getting bigger and bigger. The bigger it is, the harder it wld be to stop and longer to resolve. If everyone is just afraid of getting hit by that huge snowball, someone sld just step out and stop it from rolling. If you treasure wat's ard you, it wldn't matter whether you'll be at the losing end or not, cos at the end of the day, you noe tht you've done your best and tht you are willing to take the step. Again, its hard, but its worth trying.
Okay, yups thts the wateva-you-call-it of the day. Its nearing midnight le. I hope you guys wld think through wat i said k? Good nights...
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