Just sometimes...

Sometimes its not very nice to blog about personal life matters. But, sometimes, you just have to get it out.

I think every year (that's if i did update regularly), one of my post would definitely be about family issues. And today, Ta-da. Family issues.

My mom always tell me never to marry a guy like my dad, which i both approve of and disapprove of, but I'm standing more to the approve side. I mean, come on, we learn as we grow even if it means we are old. So yes, today something happened which leads to this post.

Sometimes i wonder, how is it possible for someone to have possibly 2 sides to them to the fact that you trust and agree with them but to only find out in the end that, what they say might not be the absolute truth. And this, it hurts my head to think. To trust or not to? It happens so that the people i respect most turns out to be those of whom i can't really figure out.

I wrote him a letter. Because it seemed so much better than talking. But writing letters mean that there would be an awkward moment.

Sometimes, i really wonder, shouldn't you love a person for who he/she is and not what he/she is? Doesn't it take both hands to clap and while the other party is already giving in, shouldn't you not take advantage over that fact but also give in a little too? Isn't this what makes a happy marriage?

To give and take.